Elaine Spicer
Saturday, March 29, 2014

True Resilience

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In the many months since I have blogged, I have not been idle…I have used my Facebook page:  Challenging Children to write.  Sometimes, I r...
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Saturday, June 8, 2013

So Many Thoughts, So Little Time

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I realized that it has been several months since I have blogged.  I find myself writing on the facebook page, Challenging Children much more...
Sunday, March 24, 2013

"This One Child"

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poem by Daniel Hughes, Clinical Psychologist, continued from facebook page:  Challenging Children ...in that moment his soul is seen with...
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Wednesday, March 20, 2013

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           Help For Parents of Children Prone to Stealing Stealing is an addictive behavior, much like other kinds of addictions.  It is a...
Friday, November 30, 2012

Food Issues with Teen

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I received this call for advice last evening: Our high energy middle school aged son only eats foods which have a specific consistency and ...
Thursday, November 29, 2012

Loss, Abandonment, Grief, New Families, Newly Reunited Families

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Holidays!  They conjure up many, many images and along with how those images are conjured up come memories.  For some, perhaps for many thes...
Sunday, September 23, 2012

Disruptive Student/s

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Yesterday, I posted on my Challenging Children Facebook page, this question posed by a teacher: "what am I to do with a stu...
Sunday, September 2, 2012

YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS OF ME!!!!!

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"You can't tell me what to do; you are not the boss of me!"  "No, I don't want to do______, I'm not going to do i...
Monday, August 27, 2012

"Gary, Indiana; Gary Indiana...

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my home sweet home.”   I am usually able to begin a blog with the title.      Tonight was different:    I wanted the titl...
Sunday, August 26, 2012

Parenting Softly

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My husband and I watched from our deck this morning as a friend walked by and in hand with his two young children.  We knew they were probab...
Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Can We Give What We Haven't Gotten?

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The question that this blog is responding to is whether it is possible for a parent to help their child heal from the wounds of trauma if th...
Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The Power of Oxytocin

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I wrote on my Facebook page:  Challenging Children that our 7 year old grandson used his powers this morning to calm a very agitated possum ...
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Elaine Spicer; LCSW
I have been a social worker for 31 years. My work has been with families and children first in the area of Child Protective Services and then as a therapist working with the same population. I have worked with divorcing and divorced parents teaching co-parenting techniques, supervised therapists and have been a social worker for emotionally challenged children and adolescents in an inner city school system. About 7 years ago I was introduced to the work of Bryan Post and, as a friend and colleague said at the time...I went Post-al. All of my previous assumptions and indeed my work using behavioral interventions, got pushed aside. And along came the realization that none of the interventions, meant to change behaviors, had anything in common with helping children heal from the trauma they had experienced. My best work these days is as a coach/consultant for parents, other caregivers, and teachers. The services I provide are parent education, coaching, consulting and supervising. I am the mother of five adult children and grandmother to five. I am both a bio mom and an adoptive mom.
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